Considering men’s obsession with beauty and sophistication, you’d think that the prettiest of women in the world are in enviable relationships. But let’s put this in the open. You’re beautiful, independent and financially stable. You’re the trailblazer of your small social group of friends and your entire world runs under your feet. So why is it still hard to score yourself a man? I mean, seriously, what are you doing wrong?
Here are five reasons why you are beautiful and still single.
Men are scared to approach you
Beautiful women, generally, have a personality that often comes off as rather ‘too strong’ for men. Men find your confidence intimidating, and they know that the old 40 flirty questions won’t work on you. So first, don’t feel sorry for yourself. Guys will thoroughly pore over themselves before they approach you, and that’s a good thing. They recognize your beauty from afar and they believe that you’re worth the effort. They understand that you deserve the best. Even the few hotheads who have the confidence to approach you have their doubts. One wrong move and they know you’ll readily lose their number. Nobody believes you’re their type. So if you think about it, it’s not really your fault. You’re just too perfect for the average. How’s that for class, huh?
You are surrounded by a lot of friends
Beautiful single women are always part of a ‘herd’ – a team of girlfriends who are always laughing their asses off. You are the life of the party in your group, and you know how to play your part. You would rather hang out with your friends than spare time blushing around men. Friends first – that’s your golden rule; no compromises. To you, men are hardly a priority. While this sense of independence may be a good thing, it makes you vulnerable when your friends are not around.
You are never ready to settle
Attractive women are naturally outgoing and ambitious; it’s part of their irresistible charm. You want to travel the world, perform at the karaoke, dance with a lion in the zoo – if it looks fun, then it’s worth trying. You rarely have time to settle, or at least think about it. Getting into a relationship sounds like a direct ticket to no-fun world, and you are not ready for such a liability. You believe in taking advantage of your freedom and with your beauty, you are confident you can still score a man at an age. So what’s the rush on commitment?
Everybody assumes you’re already taken
Men are more inclined to assume that you’re already seeing someone, perhaps due to the fact that you always seem happy and lively. Everything in your life seems too perfect to be true, and for the most part, people will ascribe that to an already perfect relationship. So whenever you’re out with your friends, having fun, cracking jokes and rejecting all those drinks from other guys, they can always sense the “I am Taken” attitude you always portray. In most cases, you don’t even realize it. You’re too busy enjoying life. You are your own man, and you like it that way.
You’re insecure about your feelings, Even though you never admit it
Just like other women, you fall in love too. Outside, you are happy; or at least you want everybody to believe you are. But inside, you’re lonely, and when your friends are not around, you feel empty. Even then, you’re still scared to let any man in. You’re afraid of heartbreaks and what they would do to you. Also, the fear of being judged by people around you makes you picky.
You have everything going well for you, and finding the perfect man to match your standards seems like the most logical thing to do, no matter how long it takes. All in all, you know that you don’t need a man to validate your life, but whenever people ask you why you are still single, it hurts you. So your personal life is filled with mixed emotions and you really don’t know what to settle for.
Okay, you’re beautiful; there’s no denying that. But you’ll realize that life is so much more fun if you have someone else to share it with. Friends are there to help you enjoy life at your best but a lover is there to help you be at your best. Again, finding a good husband to spend the rest of your life with is not something that just happens overnight. You have to put yourself out there, be approachable, and above all, be a little submissive. Remember, you are not getting any younger. Life will be so much more fun for you if stop overthinking relationships and letting them grow spontaneously.